What’s something you’ve done that your past self would be proud of?
As I reflect on this younger question, I realize that there are a lot of things that younger me would be proud of. I don’t say that in a conceited way, but things I honestly never thought I would be able to make or accomplish, I have made. I think so many times; I tend to think about how all these things are wrong with my life, but I forget to see how far I’ve come.
When I was a kid, playing dress-up was one of my favorite things in the world. It’s something I liked to do all the time. What I always wanted to do was learn how to sew and make cute things to take my adventures to new heights. Unfortunately, at the time, my family no longer sewed, and the machines were too expensive in case I lost interest in it. After I got married, my cousin offered to teach me how to quilt, and I bought my first sewing machine. It was a $100 model from Walmart, but I was able to successfully learn how to sew with it. I made quite a few quilts with it, just the basic square ones. Then the pandemic hit, and masks were mandatory. I hadn’t pulled out my sewing machine in a few years, but I found this easy tutorial on YouTube and started to make them. I even sold some online.
That gave me the confidence to try something a little more complicated; I made a lined tote bag. I was so excited about it, and so I tried to sew a pair of shorts. That was a fail, but I tried again, and it was a success.
It was actually my husband who got me into making my first costume. We always liked going to medieval fairs. So he said, “Why not make us some pirate costumes?” I cannot tell you how scared I was. But I started by making my top. I found a video tutorial with a free pattern on YouTube. After that, I made a skirt to go with it and bought a pattern for it. Soon I finished both of our costumes. As time went on, I kept doing slightly more complicated projects. Zippers? No Problem! Skirts? I can do it! Dresses? Oh yes!
Now 6 years into my clothing-making journey, I have made all sorts of cosplays. I’ve learned how to sew well. I’ve even won awards for the work that I’ve put into them. I get to go to comic cons and be with like-minded people who want to have fun as their favorite characters. I know that younger me would be so proud of finally making our dream come true. We did it!








